The psychology of minimums - why we accept abuse

Former therapist, current restaurant owner. Been thinking about WHY we all accepted minimum orders for so long.

Learned helplessness: “This is just how it is” - we stopped questioning

Sunk cost fallacy: “We’ve always used Sysco” - fear of change

Authority bias: “They’re the experts, they must know best” - trusting the wrong people

Normalization: Everyone around us did it, so we did too

The first time I ordered $127 from boxncase, I felt GUILTY. Like I was doing something wrong. Like they’d reject me for being “too small.”

They didn’t. They treated me like a customer.

That’s when I realized how broken our relationship with traditional distributors was.

We were in an abusive relationship with our suppliers. Minimums are control tactics.

Break free. Your business deserves respect.

respect starts here

the ‘felt guilty ordering what I needed’ part hit HARD. why do we apologize for our own business needs??

showing this to my partner. we both felt crazy for questioning the system. we’re not crazy.